The Circle
A small group for women in the messy middle of divorce. Here you don't just survive it, you become through it.
The decision to divorce has been made. By you or for you. The marriage is over, out loud or in your body.
And yet somehow, life still expects you to cook dinner, answer emails and pretend you're fine.
Your friends care, but they don't really get it.
Your family checks in, but their advice misses the mark.
Every move still feels like a question mark.
Every conversation requires a performance.
Every step forward feels like a wobble in disguise.
And the hardest part? You're doing it alone.
That ends here.
The Circle isn't just about getting through the divorce. A big part of what we do is mindset and identity. Who are you becoming on the other side of this? What does your life actually look like and who do you want to be in it? For a lot of women that side of things gets completely lost in the legal and financial noise.
So The Circle will help you work out who you're becoming through it.
The women who come out well aren't the ones who had it easy. They're the one's who had support.
It's for you if
You're 100% holding it together on the outside but if you're honest with yourself you're emotionally frayed and quietly done carrying it all solo.
You're navigating:
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Endless decisions you don’t feel qualified to make
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Losing yourself, your identity and your future
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A calendar that won’t stop even though you sometimes feel life already has
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Rage, relief, grief, guilt and some days that's all before breakfast.
Nobody talks about the years of swallowing your feelings, keeping the peace, fixing, helping, managing everyone else's emotions but your own
The silence louder than anything either of you said.
And the fear that you've got to midlife and have zero clue who you are anymore or more scary, you might be wondering if you ever knew.
If any of this is landing, The Circle was made for you.
What makes this different?
Most women in this season have people around them who care. But caring isn't the same as understanding.
Your friends don't know what to say. Your family has opinions. Your lawyer is focused on the legal outcome. And your own head is so full it's hard to hear yourself think.
The Circle gives you something none of those can, a group of women who are in it with you. They don't know your ex, they have no opinion on your decision and they have no history with the version of you that existed before all this.
It's somewhere to turn that isn't your legal team, your WhatsApp group or your own spiralling thoughts. No explaining yourself. No performing okayness. Just women who get it because they're living it too.
The women inside describe it as an emotional safety net, a judgement-free space where they don't have to explain themselves. They say being part of the group has helped them feel validated, empowered and quietly proud of where they're going.
Because there's something that happens when another woman says the thing you've been thinking but haven't said out loud. Or names the boundary you've been too scared to set. Or is brave enough to take a step that makes you realise you're ready to take yours.
That's the group dynamic. And it accelerates everything.
I know what it feels like to be exactly where you are. The decision made, the fear alive, the fog so thick you can't see the next step let alone the ones after it.
10 years ago I couldn't find any alternative. So I called that lawyer and got stuck in a loop I struggled to get out of. No one to help me think clearly. No one who truly got it. No roadmap for the emotional reality of what I was living through, only the legal process that was happening to me.
That experience is why The Circle exists.
Not just to help you get through your divorce, but to make sure you come through it with your sense of self intact, your feet under you and a real sense of who you're becoming on the other side.
Because you deserve more than survival. And I know, from the inside, exactly what that support needs to look like.
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This is for you if:
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You’ve made the decision to divorce
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You’re navigating the legal/emotional logistics (but still in the fog)
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You’re tired of performing but still uncomfortable prioritising yourself
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You’re done managing his emotions while yours go unheard
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You’re not looking for therapy but want to get "unstuck"
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You want to connect with other women living this chapter
It's not for you if:
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You’re still deciding whether to leave
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You're looking to rinse your ex for all they're worth
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You're hoping someone else will do all the work for you
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You're still waiting for your ex to change so all this gets easier
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You're looking for specific legal or financial advice.
Inside The Circle you'll get
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1:1 call - One hour, just the two of us, to use at any point during your four months. Whether you need it at the start to find your feet, in the middle when something specific hits, or towards the end to take stock, it's yours, when you need it most.
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Fortnightly group calls - Every other Wednesday at 1pm UK time we meet on Zoom. A mix of guided focus and open coaching, sometimes I'll bring something to explore together, sometimes it's entirely led by what's live for you. Always recorded so you never miss a session even if life gets in the way.
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Office hours - Every Monday and Wednesday I'm in the group chat and available to you. Not a ticket system, not a 48 hour response window. Real, timely support on the decisions, conversations and moments that can't wait until the next call.
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On demand video library - A full library covering the topics that come up time and again. Mindset, finances, legals, communication, your future and who you're becoming through this. There when you need it, at whatever hour you need it.
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The Telegram Community - Your space between the calls. Where the women in The Circle connect, share, support each other and show up on the hard days and the good ones.
The Investment
£147 a month
For 4 months
That's four months of support for just over the cost of one hour with a decent family lawyer.
This isn't an expense. It's strategic support that will pay for itself over and over again — not just in how you navigate your divorce, but in how you come through it. Emotionally, mentally and as the woman you're becoming through this.
£147 a month isn't for the calls and the office hours.
It's for 30 fewer spirals.
3 fewer silent sobs in the laundry room.
1 clear move you wouldn't have made alone.
The Circle is currently at full capacity. Join the waitlist to be the first to hear when a space becomes available.
Prefer to talk to me before joining? Book a free call, I'd love to chat
Still on the fence? Here's what women inside The Circle say
